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Ever wonder why you wasted so much of time??

Posted by pinkeye on June 14, 2005, at 14:33:37

I am thinking today, (in fully functioning, good & cheerful mood inspite of too much of work pressure and 10 people pulling me in all different directions at work), why I wasted all these years in being depressed? Why did I not learn it right the first time? Why did I not know as much as I know now 3 years back? Why did I spend so much time thinking over my ex T when it was very obvious that it was not a workable relationship? Why did I waste all these time in useless ruminations and thoughts instead of doing something productive? Why did I allow myself to get depressed and not be happy?

Time is everything.. Everybody eventually gets everything and understands everything. How soon you do it in life is what matters.

Re: Ever wonder why you wasted so much of time??

Posted by rainbowbrite on June 14, 2005, at 16:22:31

In reply to Ever wonder why you wasted so much of time??, posted by pinkeye on June 14, 2005, at 14:33:37

>>why I wasted all these years in being depressed?

alot of depression is out of your control, its coming out of depression where the challenge comes in and we have to avoid beating ourselves up...and that is HARD

>>Why did I not know as much as I know now 3 years back?

becasue we get wiser as we get older. AND becaseu we dont live backwards...its unfortunate, Id be so successful now if I could have known what I know now back when I new nothing :-)

>>Why did I spend so much time thinking over my ex T when it was very obvious that it was not a workable relationship?

Because its human nature to think and think and think.

>>Why did I allow myself to get depressed and not be happy?

sorry, its not about allowing, it happens and then in time you have to learn how to manage the hurdles....its not about allowing..ok?

That is a pretty good explanation :-) (nm) » rainbowbrite

Posted by pinkeye on June 14, 2005, at 21:24:02

In reply to Re: Ever wonder why you wasted so much of time??, posted by rainbowbrite on June 14, 2005, at 16:22:31

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