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Posted by Krissy P on March 16, 2003, at 21:14:09
Okay, I don't know what to do. My mother is really getting on my nerves LITERALLY. Don't get me wrong-I love her a lot and we equally do things for each other-I pull my weight-BUT, is this worth my mental health? I know I have to find a place to rent, I just need the space bad!!!!!! I am not meaning to blame, and I hope it isn't taken that way, I eat more, I smoke more, and my nerves are on extreme edge when she starts pissing and moaning and complaining, yelling at the dogs. She is a nice person with a great heart, but.........
I mean you guys, she is a complainer about a lot. I dump the trash, I clean, I do errands for her, I take care of MY puppy, I clean up my bro's and I both dogs' poop, I deposit money into her checking account for her when she needs me to-(she works), which she complains about that too-(damn I wish I had a career)all when I am full time in school trying to handle that too. I keep my side of the street clean! She can never see most of the positive of anyting in life.
What can I do??? This is getting worse. I'm not depressed, I'm not manic-I posted once I believe about my mom and I. Damn, am I married to her??
-I don't think so! This is crazy. Something has GOT to change! I've tried, but I can't do it any more.
I really need your guys' input here-please. Total honesty is something I can take. Please advice????
Kristen
Posted by Dr. Bob on March 17, 2003, at 21:09:37
In reply to HELP!!! My Mother............, posted by Krissy P on March 16, 2003, at 21:14:09
Aren't you talking about MY MOTHER??!!!!!!! (nm)
Posted by ace on March 16, 2003, at 21:57:12
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Re: Aren't you talking about MY MOTHER??!!!!!!!
Posted by SpreadDaALoha on March 16, 2003, at 22:03:58
In reply to Aren't you talking about MY MOTHER??!!!!!!! (nm), posted by ace on March 16, 2003, at 21:57:12
This might not be relevant, but mothers can be difficult. I swear my ex-boyfriends mother unquestionably contributed to his developing Bipolar disorder. She treated him more like a husband than a kid (almost emotional molestation or something). It is very sad. He told me he moved out and has since had time to grow because of that. It makes me sad that people can effect others like that. Our previously elated realtionship ended the night he was admitted to hospital for suicide ideation. So this mother issue really caught my attention.
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So, what can we do ace?????? (nm)
Posted by Krissy P on March 16, 2003, at 22:09:42
In reply to Aren't you talking about MY MOTHER??!!!!!!! (nm), posted by ace on March 16, 2003, at 21:57:12
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Re: Aren't you talking about MY MOTHER??!!!!!!! » SpreadDaALoha
Posted by Krissy P on March 16, 2003, at 22:20:03
In reply to Re: Aren't you talking about MY MOTHER??!!!!!!!, posted by SpreadDaALoha on March 16, 2003, at 22:03:58
wow--- I hear you. The whole mother-daughter relationship AND mother-son relationship is difficult-I agree. I just don't want to let it block my own growth, dreams, and self-confidence, and I feel that it is. My mom and I are very emeshed-too much. I have tried to work on this, but to no avail.
Kristen----
Re: Aren't you talking about MY MOTHER??!!!!!!! » SpreadDaALoha
Posted by Krissy P on March 16, 2003, at 22:21:15
In reply to Re: Aren't you talking about MY MOTHER??!!!!!!!, posted by SpreadDaALoha on March 16, 2003, at 22:03:58
Are you doing okay with the boyfriend thing?
Just caring, Kristen:-)----
Re: HELP!!! My Mother............
Posted by daizy on March 17, 2003, at 12:27:18
In reply to HELP!!! My Mother............, posted by Krissy P on March 16, 2003, at 21:15:35
Krissy I have a big problem with my mum too, Its because im always around her, and rely on her for everything, she just gets under my skin! I feel sorry for her having to put up with me! I think this thread belongs on PSB....
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yep-it's on PSB:-) thanks (nm) » daizy
Posted by Krissy P on March 17, 2003, at 15:11:03
In reply to Re: HELP!!! My Mother............, posted by daizy on March 17, 2003, at 12:27:18
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Re: So, what can we do ace- KILL THEM! NO!!!!!!!!! (nm) » Krissy P
Posted by ace on March 17, 2003, at 19:19:01
In reply to So, what can we do ace?????? (nm), posted by Krissy P on March 16, 2003, at 22:09:42
Posted by Krissy P on March 17, 2003, at 23:17:38
In reply to Redirected: HELP!!! My Mother............, posted by Dr. Bob on March 17, 2003, at 21:09:37
Thnaks Dr.Bob:-) and No ace!!! Homie don't do that-not a good thing to say *shivers*
> Aren't you talking about MY MOTHER??!!!!!!! (nm)
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> Posted by ace on March 16, 2003, at 21:57:12
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> Re: Aren't you talking about MY MOTHER??!!!!!!!
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> Posted by SpreadDaALoha on March 16, 2003, at 22:03:58
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> In reply to Aren't you talking about MY MOTHER??!!!!!!! (nm), posted by ace on March 16, 2003, at 21:57:12
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> This might not be relevant, but mothers can be difficult. I swear my ex-boyfriends mother unquestionably contributed to his developing Bipolar disorder. She treated him more like a husband than a kid (almost emotional molestation or something). It is very sad. He told me he moved out and has since had time to grow because of that. It makes me sad that people can effect others like that. Our previously elated realtionship ended the night he was admitted to hospital for suicide ideation. So this mother issue really caught my attention.
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> So, what can we do ace?????? (nm)
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> Posted by Krissy P on March 16, 2003, at 22:09:42
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> In reply to Aren't you talking about MY MOTHER??!!!!!!! (nm), posted by ace on March 16, 2003, at 21:57:12
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> Re: Aren't you talking about MY MOTHER??!!!!!!! » SpreadDaALoha
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> Posted by Krissy P on March 16, 2003, at 22:20:03
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> In reply to Re: Aren't you talking about MY MOTHER??!!!!!!!, posted by SpreadDaALoha on March 16, 2003, at 22:03:58
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> wow--- I hear you. The whole mother-daughter relationship AND mother-son relationship is difficult-I agree. I just don't want to let it block my own growth, dreams, and self-confidence, and I feel that it is. My mom and I are very emeshed-too much. I have tried to work on this, but to no avail.
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> Kristen
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> Re: Aren't you talking about MY MOTHER??!!!!!!! » SpreadDaALoha
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> Posted by Krissy P on March 16, 2003, at 22:21:15
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> In reply to Re: Aren't you talking about MY MOTHER??!!!!!!!, posted by SpreadDaALoha on March 16, 2003, at 22:03:58
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> Are you doing okay with the boyfriend thing?
> Just caring, Kristen:-)
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> Re: HELP!!! My Mother............
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> Posted by daizy on March 17, 2003, at 12:27:18
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> In reply to HELP!!! My Mother............, posted by Krissy P on March 16, 2003, at 21:15:35
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> Krissy I have a big problem with my mum too, Its because im always around her, and rely on her for everything, she just gets under my skin! I feel sorry for her having to put up with me! I think this thread belongs on PSB....
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> yep-it's on PSB:-) thanks (nm) » daizy
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> Posted by Krissy P on March 17, 2003, at 15:11:03
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> In reply to Re: HELP!!! My Mother............, posted by daizy on March 17, 2003, at 12:27:18
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> Re: So, what can we do ace- KILL THEM! NO!!!!!!!!! (nm) » Krissy P
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> Posted by ace on March 17, 2003, at 19:19:01
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> In reply to So, what can we do ace?????? (nm), posted by Krissy P on March 16, 2003, at 22:09:42
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